How does Sex & Intimacy Coaching work?

My intimacy coaching model is based on the MEBES model (created by sexologist Dr Patti Britton).
This is a holistic model that looks at five major areas that need to be brought into alignment:

MIND: The mind can be the greatest sex organ or the worst inhibitor of pleasure. This includes your own inner conversations that you carry out with yourself, the information you have about sexuality, thoughts about sexual performance, limiting thought patterns, compulsivity, the capacity to fantasy.

EMOTIONS:  This includes the feelings that we have about our body, about yourself, sex and sexuality. Feelings that we carry with us which stem from the past and follow us into the present and affect our life. Emotions that we suppress, emotions that we are not in touch with and how we express our emotions. Capacity for intimacy.

BODY & BODY IMAGE: Any factor that affects the body can affect sexuality. Chronic illness, injury and medication can all have an impact on sexual functioning. Knowing your sexual response cycle and your sexual patterns, understanding your body’s sexual anatomy and function, issues around your body image, learning skills for how to be an extraordinary lover.

ENERGY: Sex is all about energy. Here we look at how energy is build up, contained and expressed. In in-person sessions, you can also learn how to develop an awareness of the flow of sexual energy in your body and how to cultivate sexual energy through Taoist practices and sexual qi gong (chi kung).

SPIRIT:  This includes peak orgasm experiences, sacred sexuality and sex as a pathway to experience the Divine

In addition, I have added a sixth area:

ENVIRONMENT: We are one with our environment. We are not separate from our environment. Our surroundings have a great influence on us. The place we live and work in, the people we surround ourselves with or our greater surroundings, our family, society – all have an impact on how we feel.

I am working with you to bring all 6 areas into alignment so that your sex life and your relationships can be most fulfilled in your life

What Happens in a Coaching Session?

In the first session, we discuss the issues, questions and concerns that brought you to work with me. We clarify your goals and outcomes. We explore the 6 areas (mind, emotions, body, energy, spirit and environment) of your life as there are many factors that contribute to sexual concerns.

We will look at solutions right from the first session. Coaching is goal-focused and results-driven.

I will give you an intake form at the end of the first session which I will ask you to send to me before your second appointment.

From this, I create a sex coaching plan that will help you to align the sex areas of your life and will move you towards your desired goals, visions and dreams.

Sex Coaching involves talking, personalized sexuality education, carrying out home assignments, practical and psychological exercises, balancing emotions, guided meditations and visualizations, use of NLP techniques, reading, learning from videos, journaling and more.

In my Sex Coaching practice, I draw upon my background in sexology, NLP, sacred and conscious sexuality,  Tantra, Taoist meditation & practices and qi gong (chi kung).

How Many Sessions Will I Need?

It is not possible to say how many sessions you will need. How quickly one moves forward always depends on the individual and their concerns and situation.

Coaching sessions usually happen weekly, most certainly in the first month or two.
I recommend that you commit to working with me for a minimum of a six-month period.

Some changes are often already noticed after a few coaching sessions as coaching is goal-focused and results-driven and a very powerful method of achieving change quickly.

We will always together discuss what coaching arrangements will best serve your needs.

Where Do Sessions Take Place?

Sessions take place either in person at my studio in North Vancouver, BC or via Zoom or telephone in the comfort of your own home or another place of your choosing. Coaching via Zoom and telephone can be just as effective as coaching in person.

Commitment creates momentum.

I offer session packages, I see people make the most shifts with sessions scheduled every week for a three-month period. At that point, you can decide whether you’d like to continue or feel you’ve made a lot of headway already.
I support you to overcome your sexual and relationship concerns and to discover what you really desire and how to get it – increasing the confidence, pleasure and vitality you experience in your life.

Sensual Embodiment Program Packages Available

Initial 15 minute phone consultation: FREE!

This work is best integrated into multiple sessions. Just like each program is personalized, the structure and frequency of sessions are designed for the individual. Couples are at the same price as individuals. Here is a baseline for sessions. There is a travel fee for locations outside of Vancouver

Somatic Sex & Intimacy Coaching Session Rates Singles

1.5 hours Sessions

1 session – $240

3 sessions – $640 ($80 savings)

6 sessions – $1240 ($200 savings)

2 hours Sessions

1 session – $310

3 sessions – $850 ($80 savings)

6 sessions – $1660 ($200 savings)

Somatic Sex & Intimacy Coaching Session Rates Couples

1.5 hours Sessions

1 session – $300

3 sessions – $800 ($100 savings)

6 sessions – $1500 ($300 savings)

2 hours Sessions

1 session – $350

3 sessions – $950 ($100 savings)

6 sessions – $1800 ($300 savings)

Package Expiration Policy

3 Session Packages – expire 2 months from date of purchase

6 Session Packages – expire 3 months from date of purchase