Ah! Love! That heart-stopping, heart-breaking, heart-opening adventure.
The ability to love is universal. Love is its own mystery. It simply is, without conditions.
Relationship, however, is another story altogether. Relationship is a choice we make. A choice based on a myriad reasons. Relationship is highly conditional – that is, there are certain conditions that enable you to get acquainted and enjoy each other, some conditions that would strain it, and other conditions which would end it immediately. This is a true of all relationships -family, friends, co-workers, lovers and spouses,,,, anyone.
In intimacy coaching, I help you develop the awareness (Wow, I didn’t know I felt that way!) and skills (Oh, so that’s how you do it!) that develop and support your ability to reach deeper states of intimacy in your relationships of choice.
This awareness and skill is best accessed as part of your own body wisdom. The experiences I guide you through help you discover and overcome your hidden fears and discover and meet your hidden (and not so hidden) desires. The skills I teach range from simple words to sensual touch to deep erotic states. They are practical, easy to learn, and enjoyable along the way!
Among other things, intimacy depends on these – strong personal boundaries, a willingness to be vulnerable, and your choice to take responsibility for your own experience. As you develop these abilities, your capacity to sustain intimacy will naturally grow.
Though it’s helpful to receive coaching as a couple, you may also receive your coaching alone and take it home to share with your loved one.
Who benefits from Coaching?
- Couples seeking greater enjoyment or more erotic spark
- New lovers who know the value of starting out with clear communication
- Single seeking a listening ear for their questions
- Couples trying to balance differing levels of desire
- Couples considering or exploring intimacy with others, such as swinging, polyamory, or any of the myriad other possible love arrangements.
- Your teenagers and their friends, seeking realistic and healthy information about themselves and their interests, from someone who respects them and is not their mom or dad! (Of course, there are special considerations in meeting with minors. (please ask!)
How does it work?
Unlike traditional coaching, which involves mostly words, our intimacy coaching includes experiences that help you embody your learning. You get the listening, thinking and talking of conventional coaching, AND you get energetic body experience in the issues your are exploring.
Coaching requires a commitment on your part. You’ll need to clarify your intentions and expectations. Don’t worry, I help you define that. I will be asking questions that help you find your strengths, challenges, goals and strategies. Then we create a plan to get you where you want to go.
Ideally, coaching includes a combination of studio sessions and phone/skype consultations. Once we meet, you may choose a program or we can custom create one to meet your needs.
For those living elsewhere, we can work by phone, without studio sessions, or with sessions during your visits here. I have been known to travel so that maybe an options.
$120 – $150 per hour
*Does NOT include bodywork
*Available in person, Skype, & Phone
I am available for travel. Please inquire about hosting me in your area.
