Faq’s

Frequently Asked Questions

There is nothing fake about me, no pretending. I use Tantric techniques to cultivate an authentic, sensual and down-right steamy connection with each of my seekers. I’m known for my ability to find our common thread and lead us in building spine-tingling chemistry and incredibly sensual and energetic “firsts.” I’m not a fitness model, but I’m 100% in love with my curves and ecstatically comfortable in my skin. I’m compassionate, nurturing, playful and a very clear communicator.

Take the fragrance of our time together with you when you go. Give yourself a moment to transition into your day-to-day reality: Keep the phone off for a little longer, take in the world around you, feel the air against your skin and take another luxuriously full breath as you switch gears. Drink a lot of water throughout the rest of the day ~ we moved a lot of energy. You may find that the seeds planted during our time will continue unfolding and informing your everyday life.

I can’t give away all of my secrets, but I’m a highly trained and thoughtful teacher. I’ve developed a way to keep things very sensual while gently guiding you through the practices you need to become a fantastic conscious lover with unlimited ecstatic potential in all aspects of your life.
Tantra is a vast system, and I don’t pretend to teach it all in an hour or two, but I pride myself on being able to tune in to precisely what you need, whether you are aware of it or not. Compared to other Tantra teachers, I’m more on the practical, down-to-earth side. I focus on connection and technique rather than magical thinking or spiritual dogma. I can’t always explain the miracles that happen in a session, and I’m okay with that. I’m in awe of the mystery, and I am amazed by the energy in us all.
And yes, there are candles, incense, and fantastic music! (And, no, that is not what makes a session Tantric! Silly people.)
What can I expect to happen in a session? Magic. Connection. Liberating bliss. I work very intuitively, and each session is a unique piece of art. Other than what is described in my offerings, I don’t guarantee any specific acts or levels of intimacy or engage in illegal activities. Instead, I expect trust in my expertise and our unique connection to lead the way. Sometimes the most profound healing will take place through our conversation.

Men, women and couples interested in personal growth are curious about how to use their minds and bodies to create profound shifts in their lives, inside and outside the bedroom. I work with students of all levels, but genuine curiosity is my prerequisite. I also appreciate your willingness to try new things, even if they are scary or embarrassing. Tantra begins with the breath, so stop now, prepare to take a big inhale through your nose and let out a massive sigh with your exhale. Could you close your eyes and try it now? Didn’t that feel nice? Imagine if we started to link that with your sexual energy…

We are not a good match if you seek someone to fulfill your fantasies or make demands. While there is nothing wrong with asking for the thing that “gets you off,” I’m not interested in continuing whatever current sexual habit you are in. If you’ve come to me, it’s because you are interested in exploring the full spectrum of sensuality. The first step to this is dropping your “go-to” pattern, image, or fantasy for a few hours and reaching into the unknown for something even more impressive. If you need someone to say what you want to hear and do what you want to do, we aren’t a good fit, there are plenty of providers who love to do that, and I’d be happy to recommend one. I appreciate those who trust my expertise in leading them to an unforgettable experience.

The best way to book a session is to have a consultation. I prefer not to text unless we have already met. I do not book sessions without a conversation. I appreciate seekers who take the time to read my website, respectfully introduce themselves, and schedule in advance. To expedite scheduling, you can send me an email with your full name, phone number and either 1-2 provider references or a link to a website that verifies your identity. (All of your information is 100% confidential and used only to enhance my comfort level in inviting you into my home.) I rarely do out-calls, with the exception being 5-star hotels or upscale homes for an additional fee.

I suggest arriving hydrated and showered. Enjoy a light meal, very little to no alcohol and, if you can, some movement ~ such as a short walk in the fresh air.
You are welcome to freshen up in my well-appointed bathroom before and after our session. All products are organic and fragrance-free.
If you are interested in delving deeper into Tantra and the approach I offer, here is some recommended reading:
The Heart of Tantric Sex by Diana Richardson
The Way of the Superior Man by David Deida
At a minimum, please arrive on time (NOT early) to your session, recently showered with fresh breath or ask to rinse off and use mouthwash when you arrive. Please do not wear cologne or heavily scented products. If you are running late, please be sure to text and do not expect that your session can be extended. Bring an open heart and mind, and be ready to follow my lead.
The longer answer is: treat this session as a true gift. Allow enough time before, and after in your schedule not to rush, so you can truly savour the experience. Drink a lot of water and don’t eat a heavy meal or consume any alcohol or drugs before we meet. Think about your intention: What do you want to learn or experience in the session? What emotions or sensations would you like to embody by the end of our time together?

Yes, though generally, I prefer advance notice (ideally 48 hours or more). I am available most days between 10 am – 7 pm except Sundays. To be more spontaneous, you are always welcome to pre-screen with me, as the process may take a few moments.
If I can, I will be happy to accommodate you on the spur of the moment; but even then, I will need at least a couple of hours to prepare.

To initiate contact, please fill out my New Client Contact Form.

I understand circumstances do arise which require rescheduling. Please realize that once I book your appointment, I’m turning down other seekers who want that time frame. If you have to cancel with less than 24 hrs’ notice, it is customary to provide me with a 50% cancellation fee via Credit Card or upon our next meeting. If you give me more than 24hrs notice OR we can reschedule your session easily within the next 24 hrs, no fee is necessary.

My private, upscale, immaculate, peaceful zen oasis is conveniently located in central North Vancouver, BC, 20 minutes from downtown Vancouver and minutes from major highways in a safe neighbourhood with plenty of free, secure parking. The details will be given to you after booking and confirming your appointment with me.

  • Deeply relax and flow back into your day, feeling reset, rejuvenated, inspired and energized.
  • Learn sustained arousal and ejaculation control
  • Reconnect with your authentic being
  • Let go of the weight and the demands of everyday life
  • Expand your sensual horizon
  • Master your sexual energy
  • Deepen your capacity for intimacy
  • Develop the presence that will make you a better lover.